Since Holy Week, I’ve been thinking about unconditional love.
Do you have someone in your life who loves you unconditionally, for whom you could do no wrong, or even if you did, every wrong would be and is forgivable? Do you have someone who knows all your faults and flaws and seems to love you the more for them? Do you know someone whose love for you is constant, not based on what you do or what you achieve, but comes from a seemingly endless and otherworldly source?
If so, how do you respond to such love?
As I continued to ponder unconditional love, it occurred to me that there seems to be but one human response to it, which is fear. When you discover that someone loves you unconditionally, you also discover that such love cannot be earned, achieved, or repaid, and it’s a scary feeling to find yourself forever indebted to another. That fear can turn toward denial and betrayal as we try to run as far away from such love as we can, in order that we can establish our own independence and find a life free from obligation or humility.
It’s what happened to Judas, Pilate, even to Peter.
But if we recognize our own humanity, our own futility, and instead of running, revel in the awe and wonder that such love exists, and turn to acceptance as opposed to denial, the only response to such love is praise.
We are not like the women at the tomb that morning who did not know that he had arisen and yet, faithfully returned. We are children of the promise, filled with the knowledge that his command to love one another at that fateful last supper would be fulfilled by his ultimate act of unconditional love on the cross.
We love because He first loved us. May we spend our lives pondering not only that love, but how to serve Him with a life full of praise.